Is revenge on your ex the right way to go given how hurt you feel? No! At least not in my opinion anyway, however you can feel better just imagining doing some of the horrid deeds to them in the list below.
You’ve
been dumped by your partner and you are shattered beyond belief. Feelings of
anger, hurt, betrayal and humiliation surge through your body as the
realization sinks in that the relationship and love you thought you shared with
your partner is no more.
Would
getting revenge on your now ex lover make you feel better. You bet it would!
What kind of revenge would you carry out? There are many different, nasty,
horrible tricks you could play to even the score, such as:
- Sand or sugar in their petrol
tank
- Weed killer on your ex’s
beautiful manicured lawn
- Egging their house or car
- Having their mail re-directed
- Disconnecting their power,
gas or phone
- Disabling the hot water
service (I had this one done to me)
- Brake fluid poured over their
car
- Stealing their letter box
- Dumping garbage on their
doorstep.
But, and
here’s the big but. Before you get any ideas and go out and put these examples
above into action, just think about it for a minute. Doing some of these dirty
deeds to your ex may make you feel better, but in the long run what might the
eventual fall out be?
How is
your ex going to react? They could have you arrested and charged, this would
not be good. Your ex will be livid, no doubt about that, which was your intention,
to pay them back and make them hurt as much as you do. However, what you need
to think about here is how will they perceive you and themselves? If you read
my articles regularly you will remember me saying people love themselves more
than anything else. Therefore, this type of revenge is going to boost their
opinion of themselves and even worse they will feel all powerful and bigheaded,
because of how you have reacted to being dumped. Think about it, if you were to
carry out one of the nasties above, they will feel great that they have all of
this power over you.
The other
issue to mull over here is whether you think there is the chance of
reconciliation. Would you like to win your lover back? Pulling any kind of
nasty vengeful trick will kill that possibility in the blink of an eye.
So what
would be the best form of revenge that you could carry out on your ex? The
answer is success, sweet success my friend. Success is definitely the best
revenge. Your ex will be expecting you to be moping and pining after them,
begging them to return. However, you will be getting on with your life, being
happy and independent and they will not like this. If your ex sees that you are
happy living you life, almost happy about the break up they will not like it at
all. You see, they expect to have more power here, as they dumped you. Not the
case if you are showing a happy and positive attitude when you run into them,
or their friends.
This is
where they are going to start to want you again. This is where they will
remember why they fell in love with you in the first place. Who can resist a
happy smiling face and a happy attitude to life? This is exactly the image you
need to portray to exact the perfect revenge.
If they
know that you are missing them and pining after them, that will make them run
in the other direction. When you stop and walk the other way and get on with
your life in a happy and positive way, this is where the tables will turn in
your favour. Curiosity will motivate them to chase you. You may well be in a
situation to either choose whether to rekindle the relationship or you could
well decide that you are indeed, better off without them.
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